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When your child starts to get a little older, they’ll want and expect a little more independence, and that’s something that’s perfectly normal. As a parent, you should want to give them that independence while also keeping them close and communicative. We’re going to talk today about some of the things that’ll make that possible today, so keep reading.
Accept They’re Not a Child Anymore
Accepting your child is no longer a child is something that’s certainly very important. As a parent, it’s important to treat your son or daughter as an adult when they reach that age. Sure, they’ll always be your child and you’ll always view them that way to some extent, but you also need to respect their independence and the fact that they’re old enough to start making their own decisions.
Respect Their Needs and Priorities
As we just mentioned, your son or daughter will start to make their own decisions when they’re in their teens and late teens. It’s important that you respect that and accept that you’re not always going to agree with them or like the decisions they’re making. That’s okay, but you need to learn to respect their individual priorities and the decisions they make in life. It’s not easy, but that’s your job as a parent.
Let Them Know They Have Your Support
Letting them know they have your support is key. Just because they’re becoming more independent in life, that doesn’t mean that you’re abandoning them or that you’re no longer there to support them. They might feel more able to become independent and more confident when they know that you’re there to support them as they grow up and transition into a new chapter in their life.