Showing posts with label gifts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gifts. Show all posts

Friday, 12 June 2026

Five creative and meaningful things to do with inherited family photographs

 


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Five creative and meaningful things to do with inherited family photographs

Working out what to do with inherited family photographs is rarely straightforward. They often arrive in overflowing albums, battered shoeboxes, or old envelopes tucked away for decades, sometimes with very little information attached and sometimes with enough family history to fill a book. Sorting through them can be both rewarding and surprisingly emotional. The challenge is finding a way to preserve those memories without feeling obliged to turn your entire home into a family archive. Between the faded snapshots, formal portraits, and photographs of relatives you never had the chance to meet, it can be difficult to decide what deserves a place in your life today. Fortunately, there are plenty of ways to honour these collections that are both meaningful and practical. 

Choose a few photographs for your walls

One of the most obvious things to do with your family photos is to put them on the wall. The tricky bit is deciding which ones to display and which ones to store. As a general rule, editing tightly is best when picking photos for the wall. You want a selection of meaningful pictures that bear a second, third, or tenth look - not a wall full of random faces in random moments. Look for pictures that have both emotional depth and technical interest - wedding pictures are often a good choice, or candid shots at birthday parties and so on. Similarly, don’t try to give every single family member a space on your wall. Pick the people closest to you, and prioritise them. Once you’ve narrowed down your selection, consider using media like canvas prints or photo tiles to add a modern, sophisticated edge to your photo wall.

If you’re struggling to scan and enlarge or fit old photographs for digital printing, remember that less is usually more. Don’t blow up pictures that are too grainy, or that have damaged corners, age marks, creases, and so on. Instead, either get these photos restored or save them for something else on this list.

Make a labelled family photo box

You do not need an elaborate archive of family photographs (unless creating archives is your thing - in which case, go nuts!). What you need are names, dates, and enough context to give meaning to the photos you’ve inherited. So, to get things a bit more organised, use acid-free envelopes or photo-safe sleeves, then group images by family branch, household, decade, or event. 

Write labels on the storage material rather than on the back of the photograph, unless you have a proper photo-safe pencil. Add plain notes where you know only part of the story - a quick note saying something like “Aunt Jean, possibly Blackpool, late 1960s” is more useful than silence. If you’re not sure who, what, when, or where something/one is, ask around and see if anyone else knows. If nobody comes up trumps, label the picture with a question mark. 

Create a photo tile wall with everyday pictures

Old-style formal portraits can look severe in a modern home, especially when you hang several together. You may get more warmth from casual, candid photographs. You can use a photo tile wall for smaller inherited images because it lets you mix holidays, kitchens, gardens, pets and badly composed birthday parties without pretending that every picture has equal grandeur. Keep the arrangement loose. Group pictures by person, decade or place if that helps. Do not force a neat family tree when the collection leaves too many gaps. Include the slightly strange images as well as the conventionally attractive ones.

Turn damaged photographs into a craft project

Some inherited photographs may be too damaged for display, too duplicated to store in bulk, or too weak to frame. So scan the originals and store them somewhere safe, then use the copies for collages, handmade cards, memory books, or framed fragments. Remember, you can crop a copied picture with a dull background or too much empty space. A face at the edge of a group shot, a hand on a chair, a table full of old crockery or a car outside a sold house might have more interest and character than the full scene. 

Build a small story album

A full family history project can turn into a huge (and unpaid!) project in little to no time. Making something like a smaller story album is usually a bit more manageable. The important thing here is to focus on a particular family story - this will prevent the project from getting too wide and sprawling. Choose one person, one house, one holiday, one wedding or one recurring family habit.

Pair each photograph with a short caption in direct language. Do not dress it up. “Grandad pretending to enjoy camping, 1974” is a lot more widely readable and relatable than a polished paragraph about treasured memories or whatever. Add blank pages for missing details and corrections. Ask relatives targeted questions rather than asking them to explain everything. You may get a more useful answer from “Who is the woman in the blue coat?” than something broader, like “What can you remember?”

Keep the originals safe

Once you have chosen display pieces, craft copies and album images, protect the originals. Keep them away from damp rooms, loft heat, direct sunlight and sticky albums. Remove rusty paperclips, elastic bands and cheap plastic sleeves. Store the photographs flat where possible, with labels that make sense to somebody else. You can use digital scans, but do not treat them as the only version you trust. Save copies in more than one place and name the files clearly. Finish with one practical decision. Choose the next ten photographs you want to identify, then stop there for today.

Friday, 18 October 2019

Choosing the Perfect Flowers for every Occasion

Photo by Leonardo Wong on Unsplash
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I think you're either a cut flower person or you're not. I'm not massively nowadays, I can totally appreciate their beauty and I love to take photographs of flowers growing, especially when visiting National Trust properties but it is rare for me to have cut flowers in the house.

If I do, it will normally mean spring has arrived and I picked up some cheerful daffs cheap at the supermarket, someone has sent me a thank you bouquet that I have spread between a few vases across the house, or that it is my anniversary and my hubby remembers how much I love our wedding flowers, stargazer lilies.

Choosing Flowers as a Gift
I do enjoy sending flowers though, as so many of my friends and family really appreciate flowers. I think as you get older and have everything you need, flowers can be a lovely decadent gift that you may not give yourself and are therefore appreciated at special times.

Some of the fun for me in sending flowers is trying to match up the perfect ones for the recipient, and not being too distracted by what I like or don't like. For example, my Nan loved big chrysanthemums as they are bold and bright and reminded her of my Grandad as he grew them, but I detest the smell. Even so, they would still always be my go-to flower for her as it is about making her happy.

Tuesday, 16 February 2016

Play to Their Strengths


Last Thursday morning I was watching a parenting DVD with a group of friends and I was really struck by some of the content. The focus of the mornings session was on teens and identity, looking at how important it is for your child to work out who they are and what is important to them.

There was various snippets of interviews with both parents and teens and the example that really struck me was a father telling a new friend that he had three sons. He talked of his oldest boys being 18 and 16 and both very academic. Then when he came to talk about his 13-year-old son he said he was very worried for his GCSEs as he wasn’t academic at all and he’d just taken a maths tutor for his boy to help him ‘come on’ but actually he wasn’t too enthusiastic about it.

The friend then asked a very pertinent question ‘what is it that lights him up? What does he enjoy doing?’ and he was told that the 13-year-old loves to cook. To which the friend then joked ‘well maybe get him a cooking tutor and help him excel in something he loves, rather than something he dislikes and has no talent for’ and when you think about it, how true is that? I suspect most of us have built our careers or achievements on the things that we enjoy or are naturally good at. God gives us all-natural giftings for a reason, so we may use them, it’s an unusual person that pursues a career which includes skills they struggle with or dislike.

These thoughts of encouraging your child within their natural strengths stayed with me throughout the day and kept coming back to the forefront of my mind. It was easy with two of my children to be able to say where their natural strength or preference lay and I could easily think of examples of how I might encourage them.

I had to think for some time though before I could come up with a natural strength for one of children though. She is a good all-rounder and as yet I couldn’t decipher what it might be that she is shining in but when I really spent time thinking about her it was clear to me that her natural gifting must be in hospitality. Even though she is only 8 she loves to welcome guests to our home and my husband's work. When people leave here they often comment about how she was the first smiling face they saw and she made them really welcome.

It would be all too easy to think that her skills of hospitality are less important or tangible than her brother or sister's giftings in maths and art but actually, I think they are perfect and we really ought to be encouraging each of our children where they naturally excel. It never works when you try to stifle a natural talent, all we want to do is build each one of our kids up and raise them to believe they can do anything they want. That sense of ambition and perseverance will serve them well.

Our world has become too focused on academia and the pursuit of A grades. I want my children to be well-rounded, there is so much more to life than the grades they come out of school with and I refuse to put immense pressure on them at this young age. When they all received their reports last week I reiterated again that the most important thing to my husband and I is that they are making progressing and trying hard.

My son's report was full of A grades but there was the odd ‘could do better’ or some such wording for his homework and we told him this isn’t acceptable. Not because he has to improve his grades but because he needs to apply himself to his school work in the same way he does to Minecraft. He is fortunate enough to find study and academia easy and thus must not rest on his laurels and coast along.

The reports for the girls were not so high achieving and that is fine, with them we had discussions about good attitudes, doing our best, and looking for progression. Each of us is created unique and we do not have to be judged against a standard that the government say they must meet, all they have to do is try hard, be kind and follow their natural calling. The rest will take care of itself by the grace of God.

The Spirit of God has made me;
the breath of the Almighty gives me life.~ Job 33:4

Friday, 3 October 2014

Packing our Christmas Shoebox Gifts - Creating Wow!

Christmas shoebox recipient children

OK I did it, I know many think it is a cardinal sin to mention Christmas in September but when the gifts are going abroad in November I need to get organised. This last weekend the girls and I sat down and made up 4 shoebox gifts for Operation Christmas Child. As a family, we have been making these gifts up since JJ was a baby and I do enjoy collecting throughout the year and then putting the boxes together knowing they will bring real joy to a child in another country.

Having travelled with Operation Christmas Child (OCC) to Belarus in December 2012 I saw that joy first hand. Children that were quiet and reserved living in children's homes with little to their name came alive when they got to open their simple shoebox and find what gifts had been chosen especially for them.

This year will be a quieter year for me OCC wise as I have a lot of other charity projects on but I still hope to be involved with the collection at the kid's school.

Child packing a Christmas shoebox gift

Making up our boxes
I was super pleased when I got out all the bits I have been squirrelling away this year to find that all I needed to purchase to make nice full boxes was toothpaste, boiled sweets, notepads and soap. So I spent the sum total of £7.35 to make the four boxes. Now obviously I've spent odd bits throughout the year but by buying smartly at sale times I've been able to get brand new cuddly toys for £1 each (The Entertainer), 4 pack of sponges for £1 (Asda), 25p pencil cases (Tesco), skipping ropes for 49p each (Sainsbury's), 6 pack of toothbrushes £1 (Poundland) and so many more things. It really does make all the difference.

I've also collected quite a number of things that have not directly cost me anything - wrapped McDonald happy meal toys, marbles from a jarbola at a fete, party bag toys that were not needed, duplicate birthday gifts the kids were given, promotional items that came with magazines and goodie bag items from blogging events.

Here are the contents of one of our boxes, they are all pretty similar as I have a formula that I use for packing -
  • Something to wear - hat, gloves, scarf, sunglasses
  • Something sporty - skipping rope, ball, mini bat & ball
  • Boiled sweets to enjoy
  • Stationary - a pencil case with pencil, biros, pencil sharpener, eraser and either coloured pencils, crayons or felt tips
  • Note pad and small colouring pad or printed sheets
  • Stickers
  • Cuddly toy
  • Toothbrush & paste, soap and flannel or sponge and hair comb or brush
  • Something pretty for the girls - jewellery, hairclips etc
  • Something to play with/ make - bead sets, crafty set, toy cars, musical instrument, brain teaser toy, girls doll
  • Photo of my kids with their finished boxes
  • Christmas card for their whole family
  • Note to show we have made our distribution cost donation of £3 per box online

Having helped sort quite a number of boxes over the years I realise I pack mine quite full but that is my choice and even if you could only put 6 or 8 items in a shoebox it will still be really appreciated.

Sample showbox contents

Creating Wow
The subtitle of this post was Creating Wow and I called it this because that is the sound you hear when you are in a room full of children opening their shoeboxes. It would be very easy to judge the shoebox gifts by our own privileged and western standards. I know that as much as I have tried to instil gratitude into my children they are still not great at it. If they were given a shoebox with a toothbrush and paste in they would probably turn their nose up. (I'm not proud of this but you know I like to be real with you) but from what I observed and learnt from veteran OCC staff it is very different for children in other countries.

They are happy for what they receive, I did not hear one moan of 'but their box is bigger than mine', 'I want that one' or 'I don't like it'. All I heard was wow and wow and even more wow and if you watch the short video below you'll see what I mean. Listen for the wow, it will warm your heart.

Might you fancy making a shoebox gift up this year?  
You can make one yourself (see my tutorial over here or another example of a box I made here ) or if you like the idea but you are short on time then you can use Shoebox world and choose your items and pay the price and then just leave it to someone else to pack it up and send it off on your behalf.

If you do make a box, don't forget to include an envelope with your £3 transportation donation or donate it online and this will create your tracking code so you can find out where your box is delivered to. Then drop it off at one of the thousands of collection points that are collecting between 1 - 18th November 2014.



Why not pin this post for later?

OCC wow pin

Friday, 3 May 2013

Fancy winning a beautiful fingerprint personalised keyring for Fathers Day?

It’s amazing how quick time flies, isn’t it? I can’t believe we are now in May, where has this year gone to? In no time at all Fathers Day will be upon us. My husband did such a great job of spoiling me on Mothers Day that I need to make sure he enjoys his special day.

Dh is not a man who is interested in material things and gifts that cost lots of money. He is much happier with a gift that contains thought and especially if it involves his beloved children. With this in mind it was really fortunate that Little Pinkies contacted me and asked if I’d like to try out one of their products. I showed my children the keyring and they jumped at the chance to make Daddy a special gift.


I have found my contact with Fiona at Little Pinkies to be friendly and efficient. I was promptly sent three sets of inkless wipes to take prints from my children to be used on the keyring. We had the choice to take finger, foot or hand prints from the kids and I took hand prints from each of them, but I could have mixed and matched. Different jewellery pieces are ideal for differing amounts of prints to be put on. The full jewellery range works with a single print, most will take two and three are just suitable for the keyring like we had.

I was a bit worried about using the wipes, I know they are called ‘inkless wipes’ but for some reason I had thought they would be messy and difficult to use. I could not have been more wrong, it was simple and mess free to actually take the prints and once taken I put them in the pre-paid envelope and sent them back.

Just a week later the beautiful personalised keyring arrived through the door. The first thing I noticed was the plush box that the keyring is presented in. First impressions are certainly good. The actual keyring itself was well polished and feels really sturdy and solid. It is silver-plated to ensure that it withstands the knocks that a keyring invariably gets, especially in my husbands trouser pockets with all his coins.

I was a little surprised to find that the actual hand prints feel rough to the touch, rather than perfectly smooth. Don’t get me wrong, you won’t be snagging things on them or anything but you can just feel the indentations and where the print has cut in it gives the print a kind of pinky glow, which I thinks looks attractive. On the other side we had a message engraved for dh and you can choose what you wish to say, if anything,

In terms of the actual ring that you will place your keys on, it feels strong and the ball that screws on and off the end is a good tight fit to ensure your keys stay secure.

The normal cost of the keyring if you want one print on it is £45 and then each extra print costs £10 but at the moment there is a special Fathers Day sale at Little Pinkies and you can buy one for just £25 with one print, that is a fantastic reduction. The cufflinks are also reduced.

Look how fabulous the key ring looks with just 2 prints, and you can have the names under them too - very cute!


Good news, you can win a keyring the same as ours with up to 2 prints

Perhaps there is someone in your life who you would like to give a keyring to for Fathers Day, if yes then enter the competition now. 

Please note:  to ensure you receive your keyring by Fathers Day you need to have completed your order (including sending back the prints to Little Pinkies) by 31 May 2013.

Best of luck to you!  Mich x

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Disclosure: I received one keyring free of charge for the purposes of this review. I was not instructed what to write and I remain honest.
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Saturday, 22 January 2011

Review & Giveaway - Blue Friesian Celebrity Style Magazine Cover, Superb Gift

I have had some great fun over the last couple of days creating my own magazine covers and 1 page spreads of spoof celebrity magazines. I created 3 in total and these are all to be surprise gifts for people.  I am really excited to be able to give them as I know the people are just going to love the effort and thought that has gone into them. The really great thing is that you can adapt the template to anything you fancy.  Take the example below, a 1 page spread from the magazine Esquire (bet you can not guess what this is based on?) it is set for a cycling theme but I actually changed it to an announcement of the Dad of the Year Award and now I have dh's Fathers day gift - perfect! This 1 page spread cost me £10 to have it professionally printed and sent to me or for £7 I could download it as a PDF and print it as many times as I need to.
Next up I created a cover for a friend of mine who has recently passed her Masters, she worked so hard on it, that it is nice to be able to celebrate with something a little different and to give her a keepsake to treasure forever.

There are a good variety of designs available at Blue Friesian, you can choose to make a cover, 1 page spread, 8 page magazine or 12 page magazine.  The pricing varies on what you wish to purchase and they get cheaper and cheaper the more you buy. Just imagine after your wedding you create a one page spread from something like KO to share your beautiful memories and photos from the day and use this as your thank you letter. You could have 50 of these printed and sent to you for only £50.00, that is only £1.00 each - no more than a decent wedding thank you card, and the beauty is that these are excellent quality A4 keepsakes - Fabulous!

So how did I find the process?
  • The first 1 page spread (and my most intricate with 8 photos and about 8 sections of wording) probably took me about 45 minutes to create from start to finish and that was learning the system too. The cover for my friend then just took about 5 minutes literally and my dh's 1 page spread was about 15 minutes.  So these do not have to be a bind to create.
  • You can only upload 1 photo at a time which worked but was not as quick as I would have liked, however the owner of Blue Friesian has showed me she is chasing her web developers for a fix to this.
  • Currently you have to go to an external tool to crop or enhance your photos to then fit them into the boxes available. I used PicNik which is free and easy to use. Again Blue Friesian are currently waiting for an enhanced version of their editing tool, this will allow you to crop and move images on the Blue Fresian website.  This will make a good service even better.
  • At one point I got a little stuck (it think it was technophobic me rather than anything else) and I emailed and received a fantastic and helpful response.  Blue Fresian pride themselves on their excellent customer service and I can certainly vouch for that, it was been a pleasure dealing with them.
  • At check out there are loads of options for you to pay.  I used paypal for peace of mind.
  • Postage is included in the cost and I like this, no hidden extras.
  • I have now received small jpeg images of my covers so that I can email them to friends, share on facebook etc and that is a super little extra.  Sadly I won't be sharing my covers here as they all contain lots of personal information that I am normally very careful to conceal on my blog!
In short I enjoyed myself, making these gifts was fun and not too difficult at all (even for a technophobe like me!). I think the pricing is good value and once I receive the products I will report back on the quality.  I have no doubt it will be anything but perfect as the service I have received from Blue Friesian so far leads me to believe this lady feels the customer is king!

Edit:  I received the covers I made in good time, the packaging was good and appropriate for the package. I was really very pleased with the quality, the covers are on 350gsm and are therefore very durable and great for framing.  If you order a magazine these come on 150gsm paper, again making them a long-life keepsake.

So now, are you interested!  Want to enter my giveaway to win yourself a £25.00 voucher to spend on the Blue Friesian website? This would create you a couple of covers or a beautiful magazine.

To enter -
  • Mandatory - Suggest the title of a baby magazine that Blue Friesion can add to their portfolio (you know the sort Practical Parenting, Mother and Baby, Prima Baby, Pregnancy and Birth) and if you are really clever you can suggest the spoof name too but that is optional!
  • For 2 extra entries visit Blue Friesian's Facebook page and press like (they do fab giveaway's on there) and while you are there check out my facebook page and like that too.
  • Once you have done that, leave me a comment below to let me know.
  • If you want an extra entry tweet the giveaway with @michelletwinmum in the tweet so I know
The exciting bit!

On 1st March 2011 Blue Friesian will launch a new cover to add to their portfolio based on which baby magazine title got the most votes, here at Mummy From The Heart...  So if you want to feel a part of the growth of this super business then get voting now!  Just leave a comment, then check back here or on Blue Friesian's Facebook Page after the closing date and see if your favourite magazine was voted the winner.

Terms and Conditions

  • Giveaway ends 12 noon Tuesday 1st February 2011
  • Open to all UK and Ireland residents.
  • The prize is not transferable or refundable and there is not a cash alternative.
  • The prize will be sent direct from Blue Friesian to the lucky winner.
  • I will use a random number generator to pick the winner.
  • I will contact the winner within 3 days of the giveaway closing.
  • Please leave an email or twitter ID so I can contact you if you win.
Good Luck!

I'll leave you with another couple of covers to feast your eyes on.  Perfect for a kid's birthday party?


This is a review post.  I was given £25 credit for the Blue Friesian website. I remain honest in my review of the service I used.

Congratulations to Becky, you are thew winner picked at Random.  Please email or DM me your email address and Blue Friesian will contact you about the prize.